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Bullying is a problem everywhere and I for one am growing tired of the passive approach to this issue. I discuss this topic often in our gym, but it's time for me to stop worrying about what our community will think of my stance on bullying. We want our children to take responsibility for their actions, learn to be emphatic, to be compassionate, and practice kindness. However, this does not mean they are weak. We also teach them to protect their body's and to look out for those who are unable to protect themselves. What does that mean exactly? Well it could mean for them to assert themselves in a way that would deescalate matters. To not put themselves in a situation in the first place that would lead down something physical. To remove someone who needs help from a bully and get them someplace safe. To get an adult if one can be seen. You know what else it means? To use their skills as a martial artist, if need be, to neutralize and take control (physically) if need be. We teach our students to not be victims, to walk with confidence, to help those who are unable to help themselves. I have a zero tolerance for bullying of any kind from any age. Here are our basic rules of engagement:
Let mom and dad deal with the grown-up stuff...you protect your body. Your body is YOURS not anyone else's. If that means you must fight...then you fight. Don't let your child become a victim. Want to bully proof your child? Join us at Gladiator Underground gladiatorunderground.com Coach Deets
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We've all heard that saying, "It takes a village to raise a child."
What does that mean exactly? I believe it to mean that the community has the responsibility to conduct themselves in such a manner that helps children learn and grow in an environment that is safe and productive. As the "village elders" it's our duty to lead by example and to counsel when it's appropriate. As a martial arts instructor this is exactly the position I find myself in. We don't just teach self-defense, but we also teach life skills, manners, confidence, and more. The goal being that we want them to be ambassadors for their community. If you want to be a part of our "village" then get registered for our trial program. gladiatorunderground.com See you in the gym! Make it a great day. Coach Deets ---------------------------------------------------------------------- I recently read a story from a mom who expressed her displeasure with her son sitting on the bench after many late-night practices.
It was obvious how frustrated she was and how sad her son was becoming. Immediately I thought, "good thing we don’t have to worry about that in martial arts!" Then I thought, "𝗘𝗫𝗔𝗖𝗧𝗟𝗬, we don't have to worry about that in martial arts!" There is no bench! Now, that doesn't mean that your child will win at everything but what it does mean is your child will have the chance to prove him or herself daily. They will have the opportunity to challenge themselves and overcome their fears. They will become more confident right before your eyes. I've seen it first hand and so have so many of our parents. If this sounds like something you would like to be a part of then click on the link below to advantage of our trial offer. Click ==> gladiatorunderground.com We can't wait to meet you! See you at the gym, Coach Deets ----------------------------------------------------------------------- Childhood Obesity, A Growing Epidemic! With childhood obesity & diabetes at an all-time high, it's never been more important to be careful with your child's diet. The good news is, with the right information - it's easy! I hope to provide you with a lot of that information over time. For now, here's a great tip to get started with... ======= Say "NO!" to sugar & white flour! ======= Sugar, white bread, white rice, white pasta, and everything with processed, white flour...leads DIRECTLY to bad health. There's no way around it. I'd go into the science behind it, but it's a bunch of boring mumbo jumbo ;-) ======= Eat THESE instead... =======
These simple changes could protect your child's future. ======= And let them live a long, healthy, happy life. That's all for now! Your local kids’ martial arts instructor, Coach Deets Join our tribe today ==> gladiatorunderground.com |
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